Don’t be stingy to say ‘Thank You’, ‘Love You’ to your partner

Expressing gratitude to one’s partner can improve a relationship. Mindless or autopilot thank you may not help it.

After a significant time of being together, people start to say ‘I love you’ a lot less.

But those words should not be empty. Many people say I love you but don’t act likewise. 

Pay attention to the words and phrases mostly considered little. Most often, we just don’t notice their implications but their implications are huge.

Say I’ve been thinking of you. Say what you admire about them. Say you miss them. Comfort them. Assure them that you listen to them, that you think about them, that you pay attention to them.

Thank your partner. Tell them you love them. But don’t press them to say they love you in return. If they feel it, they will say it.

If your partner is sick, don’t need to have them ask you for help. You just realize and do it.  If they are sad, don’t make them ask for your hug. Just hug them. Don’t be oblivious, don’t make them feel lonely.

If they are excited, be excited. Mirror their feelings and emotions. Don’t make bad jokes. Don’t be stingy in emotions when they are obviously excited.

Are you the type of person to bury your emotions within yourself and cook the stew for the never-ending? Communicate honestly. Don’t bury your emotions.

Don’t be afraid to say I love you. Don’t be afraid to look silly. If they love you, they will act more silly in return. You can be closer with silliness.

Embrace each other as separate human beings with individual human beings lives, who simply happen to get along enough to bump along the road beside one another.

Then, reciprocal involvement and support in each other’s progress, even when things are tough or dangerous. But always complimentary, never complete. And always with compassion and caring.

You don’t need to fail in the appreciation department.

How to truly enjoy dating and make it a great success

One of the successful qualities of successful partners is that they are friends first – they are comfortable with each other’s presence.

If you are lucky and the date is right, sometimes there is no compatibility period. You immediately feel you’ve known each other for years.

But oftentimes, you have to give it time. The most important thing is to enjoy, not try to impress.

If you’ve been dating each other for quite some time and still are self-conscious when you are in their presence, you two still need to work more. 

The same goes with professing your love.

Cupid is a baby without adult awareness, and blind. So, it does not see any logic, listens to any reasoning, it just listens to the emotions.

But to call Cupid to act on your behalf, you need to cultivate self-love before being able to love others. You need to be self-assured and have a feeling of self-sufficient before loving others. You need to be you, and love being you.

Don’t lose yourself in the process of impressing others. Become his/her friend – friends don’t judge. They just enjoy and love each other for what they are. 

People nowadays are really impatient. They need everything readily perfect. They can’t wait. They can’t compromise, and that’s bad for a successful relationship. You need to cultivate patience in yourself. You need to be patient with your partner. You need to learn to love your partner’s flaws. Cultivate patience. Learn to love your partner’s flaws. If they are not patient or love your flaws, you’ve got to move on.

A surprising and seemingly silly tip – Pray for your partner. It sounds odd but believes us, praying about someone brings out love and care you never expected.

One of the many beauties of life is to enjoy. LIve life freely. Look cool but don’t be afraid to look silly. 

BestruLove offers you a platform to put your singing, photography, videography skills out to the world. Bring out your inner Talent: Sing, Dance- do whatever you like, whatever makes you happy.

How we make BestruLove a safe space for dating enthusiasts

We are always keen on making our dating website a safe space for singles, and thrill seekers. We always want to see our dating users leave our dating website with a wonderful experience. So, to ensure that experience, we take many necessary precautions:

• Users must be at least 18 years old to be able to use this site.
• Users cannot send explicit images to other users without their consent.
• Users should upload their clear images which must have their own face for their profile picture.
• Report any account that is not being respectful to you and your privacy. We strictly take any kind of harassment reports seriously.
• Any member breaking these rules will be warned and if necessary, banned.
• Members are not allowed to create duplicate profiles.

We diligently monitor the content uploaded by the users.

We manually approve the new sign up users. If we feel anything suspicious about any account, we do not approve it.

If you are harassed by any account, please report to us. We will investigate it and take necessary actions.

Tips for our users to be safe.

• Do not share your personal details to other online accounts.
• On a first date, always choose public places.
• Inform your friends who and where you are going to meet.
• Don’t be intoxicated on your date.
• Do a quick search of the person on social media.

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